Being somebody’s girlfriend

I'm just going to get this out of the way so the advice-giving can commence: I want to be somebody's girlfriend. I mean, I really, really want to fall in love with a person and have a partner. Really, really.Being somebody's girlfriend means you belong to one person in a way that is different from …

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Being a believer

Years ago I had a bit of an addiction to self help books. I was so unhappy with my life that I would read anything -- including "The Rules," which is a terrible book about manipulating a man into marrying you -- with the hopes that the book would completely and totally change my life for …

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